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Blogging Tips – How to Blog Without Burning Out

Blogging tips from a veteran blogger who has ridden every wave of the blogging rollercoaster and is still finding joy in writing. Learn how to blog without burning out or hating it.

blogging tips

I totally almost published this post with the title “Blogging tips. From YOU to ME”. Whoops. Though that would have been helpful on my end as well.

Someone recently asked me to do a post on how I have achieved “success” as a blogger. I think everyone defines success differently in the online world, and there are tons of lists out there on how to make money, drive traffic to your site, etc.

This post offers you none of that advice.

Truthfully I have zero advice on how to drive traffic, make a ton of cash, or win the internet.  This site has evolved organically and I can’t tell you the nuts and bolts about why you dumbasses keep reading.  I’m sure most of the “how to blog successfully” posts have “don’t call your reader dumbasses” as tip #1.  F that noise.

Today I want to tell you how to blog without ending up hating it.

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1) Know Why You Write
I started this site in 2010 because our lives got flipped turned upside down.  And I’d like to take a minute, just sit right there, and I’ll tell you how I became the princess of a category called “Frugal Perv”.

I had a group of online friends and I loved sharing frugal tips about how we were dealing with our reality after our world went to hell in a shit basket. After a while, I got the feeling I was posting too much and being annoying. So, I started a blog. So I could annoy strangers.

At first I started writing with myself in mind. “Here is what I did today to save money”. “Ugh, this is why we’re so broke”. And so on and so on. As my site and writing have evolved, I started thinking about who was out there reading. What are their issues? Why are they trying to save money? What are their biggest struggles? Writing with those questions in mind has kept me ripe with content and continually motivates me to keep going. That doesn’t mean I don’t put myself into the story and let people get to know us personally. I do. But, over time I’ve moved more from “look at me” to “I see you”.

I still write because it brings me joy, and knowing I get to help other people along the way brings me even greater joy.

2) Know Your Voice, AND Don’t Try to Be Someone Else
Embrace who you are and go with it.  You’ll find me writing about what I know, am trying to learn, or things I find interesting or unique.  I’ll never write about being tan or having big boobs because that is shit I can’t even comprehend.

There are so many blogs out there that do what I want to do, but so much better than I ever could. Good for them! I don’t try to be those people because that is inauthentic, and you all would call me on my shit instantly.  Thank you.

3) It’s OK If People Don’t Think You Poop Glitter
I’m not sure why bloggers think they need to be like the leader of North Korea and have people believe they don’t have bowel movements.  AKA, it’s ok to be authentic. This sounds like number two (hee hee) above, but it is more than that.

Don’t be afraid to let your nerd/freak/whatever flag fly. Admit you’re not a perfect person. Is it really important for strangers to believe your house is always clean, your kids are perfect, and you make pottery by hand every day inspired by the organic produce your herd of Von Trapp children harvested with 1820’s hand tools? People may flock to those sites, but in your heart of hearts, we both know that drivel makes you feel like you are failing at life.

Publicly acknowledging that you don’t always have your shit together is ok. It’s entertaining, and it humanizes you. The flip side of that is, don’t spend all your time bitching and whining. People want to champion you for overcoming life hurdles, but don’t want to listen to you go on and on about how much your life sucks. Accept (and share) that you are imperfect, but also pull up your big girl/boy panties from time to time, hunker down, and take care of your shit.

4) Write Because You Enjoy It, and Not Because It Could Make You Money
I will never write about something just because I think it will generate a lot of traffic. Just don’t. Life is too short to put on a show because you think people will find it interesting.

5) Be OK That You Can’t Have It All
In the amount of time I have spent wishing “man, if only I didn’t have to work, I could do “x” with my site”, I probably could have just done the thing.

Less complaining about what you can’t do. More focusing and perfecting what you can.

6) Be Ok With Failure/Not Getting It Right Every Time
You are not a machine. There will be times when you screw something up.  Accept it, own the error, and move on.  Life is too short to spend much of it beating yourself up for a little mistake.  As long as no one was injured the world will go on turning tomorrow.

I have personal and work-related mistakes that still make me puke a bit in my mouth if I spend too much energy focusing on it.  You know those mistakes when you first realize it, your face gets hot and sweaty, your ears start ringing, your clenched butthole instantly start to generate butt pee?  I’ve had a few of those moments blogging too. I handle them how I handle other mistakes – I give myself a set amount of time to grieve the momentary loss of my intelligence, and then I move on. You can apologize, own you screwed up, and make like Elsa, and let it go.

7) Haters Gonna Hate, Hate, Hate, Hate…you know the rest
So maybe I’ve been lucky in that I haven’t had too much issue with internet trolls and rude people (but I’m not immune)…cue the onslaught of trolls in five, four, three, two, one…

You have two choices every single day, no matter who you are and what your life circumstances might be.  You can do everything in your power to make it a great day, or you can walk around like someone took a dump in your Cheerios.  I’m not a robot, and of course I have bad days, but generally I try to look on the bright side of things.  With that comes the power to not let others ruin your day.  If you give in to the anger and general assholeness of pissed off people, you are choosing to let them ruin your day. Don’t give them that power. Enjoying your life and brushing off someone who is trying to bring you down is the greatest “go fuck yourself” on earth.

8) Do It Because It is Fun
If stops being fun, stop writing. Seems pretty simple, right? Well sure, we all have days when the idea of sitting down and writing a post seems like the worst idea on earth. When the cursor is sitting there blinking and taunting me, I get up and take a walk. Sometimes that walk helps generate an idea, and sometimes it doesn’t. Either way, I got exercise and at the very least I’m in the same position where I was before getting up and moving.

9) Don’t Be A Whore
I used to read a blog because the woman had great original content, and then all of the sudden it was like she was doing the walk of shame daily.  Every single post was sponsored, and she only wrote posts based on who was paying her to write content for that day.  Now a sponsored post here and there is fine; it’s a great way to bring some income in to your blog, but every single post?  It turns readers off, and frankly after you shill yourself out for different companies that make similar products, you can appear less trustworthy.

The route I take is definitely not lucrative, but I like to think that when I actually recommend something, people believe it is something I love.  I’d rather have trust than cash.

So, there you have it.  I may not be successful at this gig financially, but I have a great time doing my thing and will still keep on keeping on until it starts feeling like work.

:drops mike and walks on stage:

 

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17 comments on “Blogging Tips – How to Blog Without Burning Out”

  1. Thanks so much for your candor, Sarah. I’m a new subscriber – as in the last couple days – and I’m even more glad I am after reading this post. I like honesty and doing your own thing. There are just too make fakes out there blogging. I also grow very tired of the mainly sponsored posts on some blogs, which is probably why I don’t make much money on my blog cuz I refuse to view my readers as dollar signs. I always feel so “used” and dirty after visiting those blogs.

  2. Um, where is the like button on here?

  3. Keep doing what you’re doing, it works!
    Love your attitude!

  4. You had me at snot. That is why I read your blog. Daughter sent me the link on Pintrest with your shower discs (which I have yet to make) and I was hooked.

    I have found that the old adage “To thine own self be true” is spot on. Spent many years trying to please everyone just to find out a) I couldn’t and b) I was still stressed out.

    Blog on, girlie, blog on! 🙂

  5. I don’t write blogs, but as a reader I can say that you hit it spot on Sarah. Authenticity is so important.
    One item I would add is that a blogger needs to have at least a rudimentary understanding of word choice and grammar. If you don’t understand the difference between their, there, they’re or your and you’re, then you need to have someone else review your posts before you publish them. Written communication skills are a must.

  6. #8 is the biggest point in my opinion. Do it because it is fun! Sure you hear of those few bloggers who strike it big and make a gagillion (real technical term, trust me I’m in finance) dollars on their blogs. Reality is, that’s not going to happen to all of us. Don’t stress about getting a post up at a certain time or perfectly wording your titles for SEO optimization. If you’re not having a blast its just not worth it.

  7. I don’t have a blog. I don’t have social media for any reason other than to follow people I enjoy. I still read every word of this post, nodded along, and cheered for you. I love your blog. I don’t have kids. I am not married. But I connect with you. And that is enough for me. I may not use all of your tips, but I love that you are honest, open, and FREAKIN FUNNY!! Keep up the fart jokes!

  8. I agree so much with Michelle….
    I so enjoy your blog….r very single one of them.
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    Thanks for writing such a fun, informative, positive blog.

  9. First of all their are now pills you can take to shit glitter. I don’t think they are available in North Korea but I really want to try one and I’n still racking my brain on how to ruffy my loved ones with a glitter pill. Thoughts? Ideas?

    Secondly, I appreciate your authenticity. Seriously, as soon as my favorite bloggers start publicly o-facing about the wonders of essential oils (it’s a fad people!) I feel like they jumped the shark and I tune them out.

  10. After spending a few days at my sisters house, I just assume that you call us dumbasses in a loving manner. It’s how it works at her house…

    Anyway, I love your blog. I have three blogs (one for the family, one for homeschooling and one for crafting stuff) that I neglect almost equally because no one ever reads them (unless I send the link to family, then some of them will). I need to stop writing for others and just use blogging as a form of memory/record keeping for myself.

    Thanks for the awesome tips. Keep on keeping it real and this dumbass will keep reading!

  11. Most of your tips can double as rules for life. Especially the last one!

    Love your work; don’t ever change.

  12. Very cool advice. You know what I loved even more,? Clicking back and reading your story on your journey to frugality. Very transparent and honest. Thank you so much for writing it.

  13. To echo someone else, these are great tips for life as well as blogging. I read your blog because you sound like a real person. I appreciate any blogger who can turn down a sponsored post because it doesn’t jive with their voice and is very real in their struggles etc.
    I have to finally say, appreciate this bog SO much. I’ve been reading for over a year now and I have learned so much about saving money and doing things on my own. I’m 28 and have been married for 2 years and seriously, I have found myself clicking on “Hippy Shit” so many times to use recipes (and laugh my ass off). Your blog has helped me and my husband save money and become way more self sufficient. Sorry to get all gushy, I just really appreciate real people who share things to help out others!

  14. Aww! Wasn’t Jack such a cute lil podger! 😀 x

  15. Just scrolling back on former posts bc you’ve been BUSY. I really love your honesty and the readers you’ve acquired are so funny…. We doooo appreciate your sense of humor and refusal to become stepford blogger. Plus, your food rocks.